Monday, September 27, 2010

The Letter From my Sister...

So this is the message that I received from my 18 year old sister yesterday. She also sent it to our two sisters and brother.

"I have decided since you all are against me- and you know you are or else you would not treat me like "crap" to put it VERY lightly; that you all are NOT invited to my wedding, and I want nothing to do with any of you once I am married, because if you really did care about me like how you care for each other (except for me- your freakin sister) then i wouldnt hate you all and wish you were all were never born- like how i know you all wish i was never born because lets face it according to the your "perfect" world i am the "Black sheep" in the family. you are all no longer considered my family UNTIL you can start treating me like i am part of it. For example- the day of my graduation dinner you all ignored me, that is not ok. you all got pissy with me, but when we were at b's freakin graduation dinner everyone was swarming her with attention. you see i feel like i have had to raise myself growing up, and you all have found stupid ways to get my into trouble. honestly i wish i could tell you how i really feel about you, but if i did you all would surely tell your parents about what i said and then i would be homeless, dont ever talk to me again! until like i stated above you can start treating me like part of the family, which knowing all of you wont ever happen, i hope you are happy with what you have done."

To be honest, this letter isn't too upsetting to me. I haven't responded to her yet and I really don't have any plans to right now. What upsets me the most is that she and her bf/fiance are posting things like this on their fb walls. I hate seeing my family thrown under the bus, but I don't know what to say/do. I am worried that anything I say or write will end up causing more problems.


  1. I'm sorry for the drama. Watching siblings struggle like this is tough, I know first hand. Hopefully she comes around and rights herself soon.

    Hang in there.

  2. Good grief! I second pp. Hopefully, she gets back on her meds and soon. *hugs*

  3. Oh no, I'm sorry you and your family are having to deal with this. I think I would be a bit speechless if I received a letter like this from my sibling. Kind of makes you wonder where her thought process is coming from to make such a horrible declaration.

    I'm so sorry.(((HUGS)))

  4. This letter makes me so sad. I have felt that way before...and seen some serious familial damage from situations like this. I know how hard it is, and honestly, letting her be right now isn't a bad idea. But it may not hurt to simply let her know you do love her, when she is ready. HUGS.

  5. Family drama is never ever easy to deal with. I hope a little time will bring peace to the situation.

    ~ICLW #18

  6. I am so sorry that you are dealing with this. Family drama is always so hard.